I don't know about you, but I thought that was the best night of dancing so far this season!
As always, we start with the Star Stair Parade (type that three times fast). For some reason I always love this part. The moment I hear that "da da da daaaaaa, DA DA DA DAAAAAAA" at the top of the hour I have to run to my living room, plop on the couch and stare at my TV. Tonight we have Erin in a very pretty shade of blue, Chad in a sheer shirt that I swear he wore earlier this season, Nicole looking very Latin and Evan all old-school dapper. Nothing terribly offensive so far.
This is when Tom says he has a Big Announcement - it turns out that all four remaining couples have led in viewer votes at least once this season. That's actually kind of interesting, because many people consider Erin an underdog in viewer votes. Chad has the NFL juggernaut while Nicole has Derek's rabid fan base. Plus she and Evan have scores high enough to withstand most popularity contests. It'll be interesting to see how that plays into the results tonight.
On to the dancing...
Erin and Maks - First dance is the Viennese Waltz, which starts well and - OH FOR THE LOVE OF PEACHES, SHE IS WEARING PANTS. Wide-legged, sheer-covered floppy pants attached to her sparkly halter top. Why, oh why, would you put someone in pants to do a waltz? She's supposed to float across the floor, and seeing what her whole leg is doing disrupts that illusion completely. Not to mention that it essentially turns her dress into a 70s disco pantsuit. Anyway, Erin's legs are shaky with nerves and her turns are odd (I've always found them halting; you can see it in her Pulp Fiction jive, too), but overall she does well and earns three 9s. Her paso doble is much better and she has a blast dancing it, but Maks again gives her a wacked-out costume. This one is a gold lame (lam-AY, not "lame") top and cape/skirt, black hot pants and black thigh-high boots. She looks like some kind of ballroom superhero; perhaps she can deflect Len's cranky comments with her wrists? Turns out she doesn't need to - she gets a 29 for her paso, and combined with her 27 for the waltz is sitting at 56 for the night.
Chad and Cheryl - C&C (are they a Music Factory?) also start with the Viennese Waltz and, hey, he's standing up straight! It always amazes me that someone with an ego as huge as Chad's gets so hunchy when he dances, almost like he's embarrassed to be so tall. But he finally got the message and is gliding, upright, across the floor. My only problem with it is that I see very little waltz to it - mostly posing, with a little waltzing here and there. Apparently I'm the only one who thinks so, however, because the judges give him the same 27 that Erin and Maks got. Things went downhill a little for his samba later, with Chad getting 25 for a stiff and jerky routine. The salsa is a party dance - he should be having more fun than that. With their 52, C&C are at the bottom of the leaderboard.
Nicole and Derek - I always find it odd that the Argentine Tango isn't in the Latin round, don't you? Just seems like it should be since, you know, it's from Argentina. And in Nicole and Derek's hands, it's amazing. You know how much I can't stand the fact that Nicole is even on this show as a contestant, but this is a beautiful dance - mesmerizing, technically perfect, and they do their flicks and kicks as they're spinning around instead of while standing still. Good lord, that must have taken ages to perfect. They get a much-deserved 30 from the judges before trotting out later to do the cha cha cha, complete with Prince-themed costuming. I'm just thankful they didn't put Derek in the purple velvet jacket and slap a black curly wig on him. This one was fun, although I'm surprised that giving a chair a lap dance counts as a ballroom solo. With their 29 for that routine, N&D are at the top for the evening with 59.
Evan and Anna - If Evan can sing (and for some reason, I get the feeling he can't), I hope he tries out for some theater's production of The Wizard of Oz. He would be an awesome Scarecrow, because he can move that gangly body with great flow and ease and because he's completely charming. And that is how I can describe his foxtrot. Dancing to "I've Got The World on a String" I totally believe he's in love with Anna's character in this moment. He gets a 29, but is saving the best for last. And that is... a paso that absolutely floors me. I missed the moment where they said it's inspired by those insipid Twilight movies (I just love the Evanescence song they use), but that explains the weird kiss he gives her at the end - which is actually a "bite" from the vampire. It's an unbelievable routine that nets them a perfect 30, tying them with Nicole and Derek at 59.
So who's going home? It's obvious who should - Chad. I think we can all assume that Evan and Nicole have their tickets punched, so it's down to the athlete and the sideline reporter. Erin has a four-point edge, but NFL stars have been known to overcome larger point gaps in this show. I think she'll just be happy if she makes the finals, so hopefully the viewers will be enough to keep her ahead for another week.
Tuesday, May 18, 2010
Wednesday, May 12, 2010
What I want to do when I grow up
This past weekend my family and I were at The Villages to visit my mom for Mother's Day. And let me say that if you have never been to this place... you must go. Seriously. I don't care if you don't have any relatives there. I don't care if you don't have any relatives over the age of 40. You must go. Now. Really.
On the surface, The Villages looks like any other retirement community in Florida. Affordable homes, golf, leisure classes, golf, restaurants, golf, golf, shuffleboard and golf. Retirees at The Villages live tranquil lives in their Golden Girls world of tropical print caftans, wicker furniture and card games.
Or so you might think.
My husband and I first visited in late 2004 after my aunt and uncle moved there from Rhode Island. After driving the 80 or so miles from Gainesville I rounded a corner to find the western border of The Villages. And the first thing that struck me was the size of this place.
Okay, you can't call this a retirement community. Because to use the term "retirement community" would be like calling the Great Barrier Reef a fish tank. This place is huge. It's the Death Star of retirement communities, an actual city complete with its own chamber of commerce and gravitational pull. I continued driving... and driving... and driving some more, passing dozens of neighborhoods called -wait for it - villages, of course! As far as my eyes could see there were rooftops, pools, nature preserves and, yes, golf courses for miles around.
I snapped out of my disbelief in time to avoid someone rollerblading in the bike lane. "How nice," I thought, "they let people outside the community enjoy the roads and vistas, too."
Heh.
Silly me.
Because as I passed this guy on blades I got a look at his face, and he had to be at least 70 years old. Not rollerskating, rollerblading. And he wasn't just puttering along, either; dude was all Eric Heiden with the wide strides and arms swinging back and forth and he was flying by! Awesome.
My aunt and uncle took us to (or told us about) stores, restaurants, themed workout and recreation centers, concerts, sporting events and more. During the day these permanent vacationers zip around on golf carts or bikes or anything else with wheels that they can balance on, taking classes or playing sports or just going out for a few drinks. Every night at each of the two town squares, live music is played and a cash bar is available.
The grounds are absolutely impeccable, with flawlessly painted buildings and perfectly manicured landscaping. And you can enjoy it all while listening to the tunes of The Villages' own radio station, WVLG, which is piped in through speakers throughout each town square. While strolling down a picturesque sidewalk lined with customized golf carts (chrome rims are not unheard of), my husband stared with his mouth agape. "Good lord," he said. "It's the Cocoon Ride at Disney."
My mom, newly widowed at the time, was just as impressed and a year later she moved to The Villages as well. Mom was always a fun person, but since the move I've seen a new side of her. Mind you, she married my dad when she was 20 and moved straight from her parents' home to an apartment with him. She didn't go to college, instead jumping right into her job and her role as wife and, a few years later, mother. She lived a very happy life filled with love and good friends, but never led any kind of "single ladies" existence.
Now? Now Mom is out at least a few nights a week, has gone on her share of dates (nothing long term yet) and has dozens of girlfriends. She'll even ask occasionally to bring one with her when she comes to visit, telling me they'll be no trouble - "Oh, don't worry about a bed, we'll all just crash in the living room." She's living the college years she never had, and I love it. I'm waiting for her to bring her laundry next time.
This is what The Villages does for people. The residents are living every second and loving it. They aren't waiting to die - they're waiting for happy hour.
Yep. When I grow up, I want to live in The Villages.
On the surface, The Villages looks like any other retirement community in Florida. Affordable homes, golf, leisure classes, golf, restaurants, golf, golf, shuffleboard and golf. Retirees at The Villages live tranquil lives in their Golden Girls world of tropical print caftans, wicker furniture and card games.
Or so you might think.
My husband and I first visited in late 2004 after my aunt and uncle moved there from Rhode Island. After driving the 80 or so miles from Gainesville I rounded a corner to find the western border of The Villages. And the first thing that struck me was the size of this place.
Okay, you can't call this a retirement community. Because to use the term "retirement community" would be like calling the Great Barrier Reef a fish tank. This place is huge. It's the Death Star of retirement communities, an actual city complete with its own chamber of commerce and gravitational pull. I continued driving... and driving... and driving some more, passing dozens of neighborhoods called -wait for it - villages, of course! As far as my eyes could see there were rooftops, pools, nature preserves and, yes, golf courses for miles around.
I snapped out of my disbelief in time to avoid someone rollerblading in the bike lane. "How nice," I thought, "they let people outside the community enjoy the roads and vistas, too."
Heh.
Silly me.
Because as I passed this guy on blades I got a look at his face, and he had to be at least 70 years old. Not rollerskating, rollerblading. And he wasn't just puttering along, either; dude was all Eric Heiden with the wide strides and arms swinging back and forth and he was flying by! Awesome.
My aunt and uncle took us to (or told us about) stores, restaurants, themed workout and recreation centers, concerts, sporting events and more. During the day these permanent vacationers zip around on golf carts or bikes or anything else with wheels that they can balance on, taking classes or playing sports or just going out for a few drinks. Every night at each of the two town squares, live music is played and a cash bar is available.
The grounds are absolutely impeccable, with flawlessly painted buildings and perfectly manicured landscaping. And you can enjoy it all while listening to the tunes of The Villages' own radio station, WVLG, which is piped in through speakers throughout each town square. While strolling down a picturesque sidewalk lined with customized golf carts (chrome rims are not unheard of), my husband stared with his mouth agape. "Good lord," he said. "It's the Cocoon Ride at Disney."
My mom, newly widowed at the time, was just as impressed and a year later she moved to The Villages as well. Mom was always a fun person, but since the move I've seen a new side of her. Mind you, she married my dad when she was 20 and moved straight from her parents' home to an apartment with him. She didn't go to college, instead jumping right into her job and her role as wife and, a few years later, mother. She lived a very happy life filled with love and good friends, but never led any kind of "single ladies" existence.
Now? Now Mom is out at least a few nights a week, has gone on her share of dates (nothing long term yet) and has dozens of girlfriends. She'll even ask occasionally to bring one with her when she comes to visit, telling me they'll be no trouble - "Oh, don't worry about a bed, we'll all just crash in the living room." She's living the college years she never had, and I love it. I'm waiting for her to bring her laundry next time.
This is what The Villages does for people. The residents are living every second and loving it. They aren't waiting to die - they're waiting for happy hour.
Yep. When I grow up, I want to live in The Villages.
Tuesday, May 11, 2010
DWTS - Performance #7
Well, what do you know? We finally got a week where I didn't hear the words "jiggly parts" the entire show!
Actually, I love Niecy. She looks like a lot of fun, but not so fun that she's never serious about hard work. Her partnership with Louis is adorable. And I appreciate how she'll gladly eat a cheeseburger without fear of bursting from a (gasp) size 2 dress.
Unfortunately, I think she's gone after tonight. Which is probably fitting - I think she and Chad have gone as far as they can with their skills. But Niecy is at the bottom of the leaderboard and I don't think her fanbase can compete with Chad's to make up the difference. As someone who also loves to eat, I'll miss her candor and acceptance. And dammit, the woman is funny.
Other than the jiggly parts bit, most aspects of the show remained the same. Chad making a move on Cheryl? Check. Nicole crying because "it's not easy" for her? Check. Brooke's weekly reminder that she once danced on the show? Check. Montage about how everybody wants to do their best? Check. And duh.
Chad and Cheryl - I think he has hit the wall this week. I love how much fun he seems to have when he dances, and at least he's working hard and not coasting on votes and his smile. But I'm not sure how much more he could improve. He's a decent party dancer who wouldn't embarrass a date on the dance floor (at least not due to lack of rhythm), but he's just not very graceful. His Argentine Tango was stiff, and his "jive" wasn't so much a jive - very few flicks and kicks. Quite disappointing.
Niecy and Louis - I really liked her waltz. I can see what the judges were saying about Louis jerking her here and there a little bit, but I've always had a soft spot for "I Got You, Babe." She positively floated across that floor and did the steps very well. Her paso, however... not so good. (And I'm still wondering why they'd include the 90s, while leaving the much more distinctive 70s out of the whole thing.) I think that dance has done in our Miss Jiggly Parts, unfortunately.
Erin and Maks -Hey CI and Bruno - how do you go on and on about how hot and awesome that tango was and then give these two a 9? It's the dancing equivalent of blue balls. That AT better get the encore tonight. It wasn't the highest score of the night, but it continued a nice breakthrough for these two and they have yet to get an encore this season. I was disappointed in their rumba, however. For two people to be this sexy and totally into each other, that dance was surprisingly lacking in chemistry. It wasn't smooth enough, and they didn't look at each other very much.
Evan and Anna - My geek love for this guy just got stronger with his Wall-E impression. That charm sneaks up on you, doesn't it? I knew he'd be a class act but had no idea he was actually funny before the second or third episode of this season. I thought his robot cha-cha was really good (nice choreography, Anna!), although his waltz bored me a little bit. From the message boards I've seen, though, it looks like a lot of people are voting for him this week. So he should be fine. He's actually my pick to win it all - he'll get to the Final Two with Nicole, but his dancing is close enough to hers where he'll beat her out on personality.
Nicole and Derek - Well, will you look at that... our little princess is having FUN! I actually enjoyed her dancing this week, and that's the first time I've been able to say that. She smiled! With teeth and everything! That foxtrot was totally charming, and they did a good job incorporating 50s moves into a paso doble (although they got an assist from the music department - was that even a song from the era?). Derek annoys me to no end with his attention-hogging mug, but I have to admit he's one of the best choreographers they have on the show. Now if we could only boycott the "woe is me, the Artist" rehearsal footage...
And now, on to my favorite night of the week. DWTS results, LOST and V. I'm a happy girl in May Sweeps!
Actually, I love Niecy. She looks like a lot of fun, but not so fun that she's never serious about hard work. Her partnership with Louis is adorable. And I appreciate how she'll gladly eat a cheeseburger without fear of bursting from a (gasp) size 2 dress.
Unfortunately, I think she's gone after tonight. Which is probably fitting - I think she and Chad have gone as far as they can with their skills. But Niecy is at the bottom of the leaderboard and I don't think her fanbase can compete with Chad's to make up the difference. As someone who also loves to eat, I'll miss her candor and acceptance. And dammit, the woman is funny.
Other than the jiggly parts bit, most aspects of the show remained the same. Chad making a move on Cheryl? Check. Nicole crying because "it's not easy" for her? Check. Brooke's weekly reminder that she once danced on the show? Check. Montage about how everybody wants to do their best? Check. And duh.
Chad and Cheryl - I think he has hit the wall this week. I love how much fun he seems to have when he dances, and at least he's working hard and not coasting on votes and his smile. But I'm not sure how much more he could improve. He's a decent party dancer who wouldn't embarrass a date on the dance floor (at least not due to lack of rhythm), but he's just not very graceful. His Argentine Tango was stiff, and his "jive" wasn't so much a jive - very few flicks and kicks. Quite disappointing.
Niecy and Louis - I really liked her waltz. I can see what the judges were saying about Louis jerking her here and there a little bit, but I've always had a soft spot for "I Got You, Babe." She positively floated across that floor and did the steps very well. Her paso, however... not so good. (And I'm still wondering why they'd include the 90s, while leaving the much more distinctive 70s out of the whole thing.) I think that dance has done in our Miss Jiggly Parts, unfortunately.
Erin and Maks -Hey CI and Bruno - how do you go on and on about how hot and awesome that tango was and then give these two a 9? It's the dancing equivalent of blue balls. That AT better get the encore tonight. It wasn't the highest score of the night, but it continued a nice breakthrough for these two and they have yet to get an encore this season. I was disappointed in their rumba, however. For two people to be this sexy and totally into each other, that dance was surprisingly lacking in chemistry. It wasn't smooth enough, and they didn't look at each other very much.
Evan and Anna - My geek love for this guy just got stronger with his Wall-E impression. That charm sneaks up on you, doesn't it? I knew he'd be a class act but had no idea he was actually funny before the second or third episode of this season. I thought his robot cha-cha was really good (nice choreography, Anna!), although his waltz bored me a little bit. From the message boards I've seen, though, it looks like a lot of people are voting for him this week. So he should be fine. He's actually my pick to win it all - he'll get to the Final Two with Nicole, but his dancing is close enough to hers where he'll beat her out on personality.
Nicole and Derek - Well, will you look at that... our little princess is having FUN! I actually enjoyed her dancing this week, and that's the first time I've been able to say that. She smiled! With teeth and everything! That foxtrot was totally charming, and they did a good job incorporating 50s moves into a paso doble (although they got an assist from the music department - was that even a song from the era?). Derek annoys me to no end with his attention-hogging mug, but I have to admit he's one of the best choreographers they have on the show. Now if we could only boycott the "woe is me, the Artist" rehearsal footage...
And now, on to my favorite night of the week. DWTS results, LOST and V. I'm a happy girl in May Sweeps!
Tuesday, May 4, 2010
My weekly childhood flashback
Every Monday night my house is transformed back to 1976.
No, we don't change into our finest polyester or whip up a batch of rosy perfection salad. Instead, the kids get bathed and in their PJs early and at 8 p.m. we all settle into the living room for that week's installment of Dancing With The Stars.
Sure, we could record it and watch the next day. But there's just something so wholesome, so innocent and retro about all of us rushing to get our chores done and comfy clothes on so that we can sit and watch a scheduled broadcast television show. Together.
So what do we think so far? Of course we're already halfway through, but those already booted off can each be summed up rather quickly:
Shannen - Dull, but didn't deserve to go home first. I felt bad for her.
Buzz - Loved his personality, but the man couldn't dance. And it wasn't due to age either.
Aiden - There was just something off-putting about this guy. He seemed a little domineering at first, but he started to grow on me. Still, too clompy with his dancing.
Kate - Horrid. She's not just an awful dancer, but a miserable wretch of a woman as well.
Jake - Tom Cruise called. He wants his creepy smile back.
Last night was a great night of dancing, to the point where I'd love a non-elimination round.
Erin and Maks - A very fun quickstep! I could have done without the clothing change, but it was a nice misdirection lest we thought that Maks was going to strip again (he's full of himself, but he's not an idiot). Erin's improvement arc is showing nicely and if viewer votes hold up she should be in the finals. I wouldn't doubt it if my love for these two is influenced by the fact that she's a fellow Gator, or that she's actually kind of a dork - because I am a dork too and I know the awkward you-don't-quite-belong thing that it entails. I also love how these two aren't even trying to hide whatever romantic shenanigans are going on between them.
Chad and Cheryl - I like Chad a lot more than I thought I would before the season started. That being said, I keep thinking he should dance better than he does. Part of it is posture, but there's something missing in his performances. Character, maybe? He always just seems to be Chad Doing The Dance out on the floor, instead of actually being a part of the dance.
Niecy and Louis - I don't think you can appreciate just how funny Niecy Nash is unless you watch Reno 911. Don't even bother with Clean House; her Raineesha Williams is comedy gold. She's pretty good on the dance floor, but I think she's taken her dancing skills about as far as they'll let her go. I'm glad she had a good night last night, but I don't see her lasting much longer.
Nicole and Derek - I don't care how well she dances (which is not "the best dancer the show has ever had" - shut up, Carrie Ann). Anyone preoccupied with camera angles as opposed to actual steps does not belong on this show. And I'm sick of her angry guppy faces that she makes while doing the Latin dances. Why so upset, Nicole? Is the headband too tight? Oh, and I normally don't make a fuss about ringers... but yeah, total ringer. Anyone who studied dance in college (it was her minor) and has danced professionally for at least five years shouldn't even be considered for this show.
Pam and Damian - From what I've read, there was a lot of outrage at bringing Pam Anderson in due to her risque career. Which is a shame, because everything I've read about her or heard her say reflects someone who is very down to earth and nice with a really good sense of humor. So it's rewarding to see that a lot of her initial detractors have grown to like her. Now if they would only vote to back it up. But as well as she has done, she had a rough go of it last night with an error-ridden solo in the group cha cha. Her waltz was beautiful, but I think it'll be her or Niecy going home tonight.
Evan and Anna - Did you ever see "Million Dollar Listing" on Bravo? There's one Realtor with this emo haircut, the kind that swoops into his face and partially covers his eyes. He's got a whiny, wussy voice that drives me nuts. Evan also has that voice, so I was prepared to be bored. Big surprise, though... the scarecrow has a great sense of humor. We knew he'd be able to dance well, but that goofiness is a nice surprise. We were all pleased to see them get the first perfect 10 instead of Nicole.
So, who do you think is going home tonight?
No, we don't change into our finest polyester or whip up a batch of rosy perfection salad. Instead, the kids get bathed and in their PJs early and at 8 p.m. we all settle into the living room for that week's installment of Dancing With The Stars.
Sure, we could record it and watch the next day. But there's just something so wholesome, so innocent and retro about all of us rushing to get our chores done and comfy clothes on so that we can sit and watch a scheduled broadcast television show. Together.
So what do we think so far? Of course we're already halfway through, but those already booted off can each be summed up rather quickly:
Shannen - Dull, but didn't deserve to go home first. I felt bad for her.
Buzz - Loved his personality, but the man couldn't dance. And it wasn't due to age either.
Aiden - There was just something off-putting about this guy. He seemed a little domineering at first, but he started to grow on me. Still, too clompy with his dancing.
Kate - Horrid. She's not just an awful dancer, but a miserable wretch of a woman as well.
Jake - Tom Cruise called. He wants his creepy smile back.
Last night was a great night of dancing, to the point where I'd love a non-elimination round.
Erin and Maks - A very fun quickstep! I could have done without the clothing change, but it was a nice misdirection lest we thought that Maks was going to strip again (he's full of himself, but he's not an idiot). Erin's improvement arc is showing nicely and if viewer votes hold up she should be in the finals. I wouldn't doubt it if my love for these two is influenced by the fact that she's a fellow Gator, or that she's actually kind of a dork - because I am a dork too and I know the awkward you-don't-quite-belong thing that it entails. I also love how these two aren't even trying to hide whatever romantic shenanigans are going on between them.
Chad and Cheryl - I like Chad a lot more than I thought I would before the season started. That being said, I keep thinking he should dance better than he does. Part of it is posture, but there's something missing in his performances. Character, maybe? He always just seems to be Chad Doing The Dance out on the floor, instead of actually being a part of the dance.
Niecy and Louis - I don't think you can appreciate just how funny Niecy Nash is unless you watch Reno 911. Don't even bother with Clean House; her Raineesha Williams is comedy gold. She's pretty good on the dance floor, but I think she's taken her dancing skills about as far as they'll let her go. I'm glad she had a good night last night, but I don't see her lasting much longer.
Nicole and Derek - I don't care how well she dances (which is not "the best dancer the show has ever had" - shut up, Carrie Ann). Anyone preoccupied with camera angles as opposed to actual steps does not belong on this show. And I'm sick of her angry guppy faces that she makes while doing the Latin dances. Why so upset, Nicole? Is the headband too tight? Oh, and I normally don't make a fuss about ringers... but yeah, total ringer. Anyone who studied dance in college (it was her minor) and has danced professionally for at least five years shouldn't even be considered for this show.
Pam and Damian - From what I've read, there was a lot of outrage at bringing Pam Anderson in due to her risque career. Which is a shame, because everything I've read about her or heard her say reflects someone who is very down to earth and nice with a really good sense of humor. So it's rewarding to see that a lot of her initial detractors have grown to like her. Now if they would only vote to back it up. But as well as she has done, she had a rough go of it last night with an error-ridden solo in the group cha cha. Her waltz was beautiful, but I think it'll be her or Niecy going home tonight.
Evan and Anna - Did you ever see "Million Dollar Listing" on Bravo? There's one Realtor with this emo haircut, the kind that swoops into his face and partially covers his eyes. He's got a whiny, wussy voice that drives me nuts. Evan also has that voice, so I was prepared to be bored. Big surprise, though... the scarecrow has a great sense of humor. We knew he'd be able to dance well, but that goofiness is a nice surprise. We were all pleased to see them get the first perfect 10 instead of Nicole.
So, who do you think is going home tonight?
Wednesday, April 28, 2010
A year in the life
So one year ago today I was laid off from my full-time job. Since then...
1) I enjoyed a true-blue summer at home with the kids.
2) I did part-time contract work for a local magazine, which included not only writing but editing, layout, photography and production work as well. Fantastic experience.
3) I took the kids to their dance recitals, dress rehearsals, football practices and games, and their grandmother's house... all without the worry of how I'd make up the hours I missed at the office.
4) The family and I traveled with my husband on a couple of his business trips.
5) I had time to actually make/shop for and wrap holiday presents.
6) I took a yoga-pilates class.
7) Oh yeah... I BREATHED.
We've got less money. We buy less stuff. I clip coupons every week and shop around for the best price on toilet paper. We almost never go out to dinner, and when we do it's with coupons and/or gift cards. We'd love to take a vacation - nothing extravagant, just a getaway to a beach or a cool city - but we know it's just not in the cards anytime soon.
And yet, we love life more. We spend more time together, we are more patient with each other. The house is cleaner and runs more smoothly. The kids are happier. And so am I.
Bad events can lead to better things. They happen for a reason, whether we want to believe it or not.
1) I enjoyed a true-blue summer at home with the kids.
2) I did part-time contract work for a local magazine, which included not only writing but editing, layout, photography and production work as well. Fantastic experience.
3) I took the kids to their dance recitals, dress rehearsals, football practices and games, and their grandmother's house... all without the worry of how I'd make up the hours I missed at the office.
4) The family and I traveled with my husband on a couple of his business trips.
5) I had time to actually make/shop for and wrap holiday presents.
6) I took a yoga-pilates class.
7) Oh yeah... I BREATHED.
We've got less money. We buy less stuff. I clip coupons every week and shop around for the best price on toilet paper. We almost never go out to dinner, and when we do it's with coupons and/or gift cards. We'd love to take a vacation - nothing extravagant, just a getaway to a beach or a cool city - but we know it's just not in the cards anytime soon.
And yet, we love life more. We spend more time together, we are more patient with each other. The house is cleaner and runs more smoothly. The kids are happier. And so am I.
Bad events can lead to better things. They happen for a reason, whether we want to believe it or not.
Tuesday, April 27, 2010
Random Thoughts
Hey, you know that idiot in the parking lot who mashes the "unlock" button on her keyfob several times to unlock her door because it's not working properly, when she's standing right next to the car and could easily just stick the key in the door and turn it? Yep, that's me.
Every time I hear Gregg Allman's "I'm No Angel" all I can think about is a very pregnant Amy Poehler dancing/grinding on Josh Brolin in an SNL skit set in a dive bar. It shouldn't be funny at all, but most anything with Amy Poehler manages to overachieve. I still giggle a little bit in the car when that song comes on the radio and my children think I'm nuts.
I can't decide which are scarier, fast zombies or the slow, lumbering kind. I think it depends on the scenario. If you're in a large field or clearing, the speedier zombies are worse because it's harder to escape (whereas you can dodge or kill the slow zombies pretty easily). But if you're in a small room with no way out, that's got to suck having the lurching zombies slowly close in on you, prolonging the horror and dread.
Remind me to never again let my son get Burger King for dinner before football practice. And no, 45 minutes is not enough time from the end of such a meal to the start of physical activity.
Every time I hear Gregg Allman's "I'm No Angel" all I can think about is a very pregnant Amy Poehler dancing/grinding on Josh Brolin in an SNL skit set in a dive bar. It shouldn't be funny at all, but most anything with Amy Poehler manages to overachieve. I still giggle a little bit in the car when that song comes on the radio and my children think I'm nuts.
I can't decide which are scarier, fast zombies or the slow, lumbering kind. I think it depends on the scenario. If you're in a large field or clearing, the speedier zombies are worse because it's harder to escape (whereas you can dodge or kill the slow zombies pretty easily). But if you're in a small room with no way out, that's got to suck having the lurching zombies slowly close in on you, prolonging the horror and dread.
Remind me to never again let my son get Burger King for dinner before football practice. And no, 45 minutes is not enough time from the end of such a meal to the start of physical activity.
Wednesday, April 14, 2010
Wow, so it's been a year, huh?
So I haven't been the most dedicated of bloggers. Very true. But a lot has changed in the past 12 months.
You see, I lost my full-time technical writing job to mass company layoffs just about a year ago. While shocking at first, it turned out to be one of the best things to ever happen to me professionally. Losing my job allowed me to pursue freelance writing as my sole occupation, which was liberating beyond anything I could have imagined. It gave me more chances to be creative with my writing, but I also had more time with my family.
Last summer was the first ever that my kids actually spent at home. Not in daycare, not in full-time camp, but a true summer where they could sleep in if they wanted and played with neighborhood friends until dusk every day. Plus I had the time to juggle dance recital duties, trips for my husband's work and, once the school year started, my son's football practices and helping the kids with homework. It has been heaven, I tell you, and something I never thought would happen.
So between my new creative outlets and the joyous time suck that is being with my children, I just haven't been inspired to blog until now. But that will be changing, as life has become more settled after the adjustment from the full-time rat race (it seriously takes a while to come down from it all!). Stay tuned, my friends... it won't be long before you're once again subject to my random missives. :-)
You see, I lost my full-time technical writing job to mass company layoffs just about a year ago. While shocking at first, it turned out to be one of the best things to ever happen to me professionally. Losing my job allowed me to pursue freelance writing as my sole occupation, which was liberating beyond anything I could have imagined. It gave me more chances to be creative with my writing, but I also had more time with my family.
Last summer was the first ever that my kids actually spent at home. Not in daycare, not in full-time camp, but a true summer where they could sleep in if they wanted and played with neighborhood friends until dusk every day. Plus I had the time to juggle dance recital duties, trips for my husband's work and, once the school year started, my son's football practices and helping the kids with homework. It has been heaven, I tell you, and something I never thought would happen.
So between my new creative outlets and the joyous time suck that is being with my children, I just haven't been inspired to blog until now. But that will be changing, as life has become more settled after the adjustment from the full-time rat race (it seriously takes a while to come down from it all!). Stay tuned, my friends... it won't be long before you're once again subject to my random missives. :-)
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